Fly, fly, butterfly. Find out your Why, What and How.

Fly, fly, butterfly. Find out your Why, What and How.

It is in the back of my head. It is as noisy as a thunderclap, as powerful as a volcano in eruption -these emotions, do you know how to handle them?

Are you emotionally intelligent? And what if you are not?

Shame? Nah! From childhood, we have been teaching that we can do everything; we can conquer all and achieve whatever we propose to do.

Is that true? We don't even argue it with our ancestors, we accept it and keep trying, keep going, keep doing our best, desiring to find the right solutions to the current issues at the appropriate time. What tenseness! 

Accuracy, achievement, efficiency, and satisfaction has to be served on the same plate to call it a perfect recipe, ah! Be aware of not emphasising one or another. Risk management, time management, and quality management. Sounds familiar?

Then we go to Change management. Let's be honest. Everything could have been thoughtfully different planned from scratch. However, we are not owners of the universal truth, and most of the time, we are coping with being wholly unmotivated and drifting. 

Where stands the authenticity?

Be our genuine selves! How came we miss out the naive curiosity? Or the willingness to be receptive and communicate transparently? 

Would this matter to you if I had not pointed it out here right now? Perhaps, you will neutrally continue with your known paths, following the safety guidelines you know, and you won't dare to deep peel the layers of the brutal reality we are living on.

After all, this is what gives you the stability you have yearned for so long. At this juncture, the noisy is so acute as a baby whimpering of hunger, guess what? You are the parent in the house.

You cannot ignore it. It would be best if you did something, your parental instincts are awake; your willingness to protect is on its high level. You must provide to him/her.

This love to meet people, talk to them, listen to their struggles, share felicity periods, and find out what makes them happy. I warn you! The addiction of putting a smile on their faces might kill you!

Why would someone believe that he or she could satisfy everyone? How kooky to play to be a god--solving all the issues of the ones You care most? Why this continuous urge to help them to come up with solutions to their problems? Out and looking for responses again!

The prowess to zoom in and zoom out–help to comprehend the root of the issue and its scope, and to figure out solutions and its impact. The alluring likelihood to prevent the big mess, the aha-moments, the clarity that arrives at your mind, it feels like a very summery sun-rising at dawn, bathing your skin, the gentle twang of the ocean in the background. Admit it! You feel energised!

Wait a minute! Have you asked for help? Are you ready to grab a new path? Most of the cases, you are not, and you have not even asked for it. Despite it, help is coming to you like a bull in the festival of San Fermin. What irksome! Isn't it?

Perhaps, I might think so too. You feel in a huff. Wouldn't you prefer to introspect on your own and left alone with your thoughts? Instead of it, someone's impetus challenges you continuously! 

A personal note regarding the vulnerability assessment, are you empathising enough? What if your fierceness hurts others' feelings? How to tune it down? Flaws, we all have them, but no one wants them in their lives.

Why? Pretending something does not exist is safe–sorry to deliver you this bad news, but your denial won't set you free: feign it until it becomes true! Nah! You will be a prisoner of your very own calaboose.

Your drives might be diverse at one's convenience such as the endless search to evolve, or the tastiest fruit grows in other's gardens; what it won't change is your essence, even if you may bend it a time.

Nothing misguided with it. It is rewarding to have a base that provides stability when manoeuvring in the gloom.

Quantify your strength through your tenacity, fueled by the passion that keeps your stamina of the constraints and struggles quotidian.

Your resilience comes from your desire to change your current outlook, make mistakes, cry, laugh, shake it out, stand up, don't flinch. At this precise moment, You will spot on what is your WHY!

The fascinating feeling of being in control of your life accepting your surroundings as they are, without you let it get you is when you will acknowledge your HOW! 

Bear proudly the outcome of every decision you take. We are learning up to the day the last brain cells light off–this is your WHAT!

Leaders initiate the course despite the fact no one is looking at them nor following them. Time to make the calls, although that will require to scrap the ongoing project and begin all over again.

Fears. They will influence you as much as you feed them. You know what it is most interesting, you can be as good as you are and even better on what you are good at if you trust your guts which does not mean the same to be impulsive.

Evaluate risk from every possible angle, and whether you don’t see the solutions clearly, don’t panic! Follow what it feels right and looks right. 

Merry innovation, everyone!